Halloween marks two years since my engagement to Serge. Last
year I wrote a post dedicated to Serge – it was heartfelt and loved up (you can read it here). I am
too lazy for that nonsense this year! Instead, I thought I would answer the
question that you often ask – how did Serge and I get engage?
Our engagement...
Saturday, October 31, 2015
Posted by
Emma Betts
at
9:28 PM
Labels:
cancer
,
east timor
,
engagement
,
family
,
future
,
love
,
melanoma
,
romantic
,
serge
A friendship with no regret...
Saturday, October 24, 2015
Last night I found out some amazing news, my dear friend
Kathy was told she is NED (no evidence of disease) – she has had a complete
response to Keytruda, the drug that I am on. I am so genuinely happy for Kathy,
her husband Ant, and the rest of her family.
Let me tell you a little about Kathy and I. Lets just say we
are mutual stalkers with a love for hairy men.
My first encounter with Kathy was at one of my first
treatments of Keytruda. I was sitting with Serge having my treatment and I
told him to look over to the other side of the room – I pointed out a young
woman and a bearded man and said, ‘look Serge, she still has hair and she likes
bearded men too!’ Kathy’s husband is pretty much the blonde version of Serge.
That was it. No contact was made – just an observation.
Posted by
Emma Betts
at
9:38 PM
Labels:
friendship
,
melanoma
,
NED
,
no evidence of disease
,
stage 4
Quiet blog = happy, excited and busy Emma...
Saturday, October 17, 2015
I have had a few messages the last month or so from
people asking if I was okay because I have been a bit quiet – thank you for
checking in, it means the world! When it comes to my actual blog I have been
quiet, but for those that follow the Dear Melanoma page, you would know that
Serge and I have been super busy!
This observation made me sit down and think why I have
not been writing as much. I do not have a pile of blogs scheduled to post on
specific dates. My blog is very much written in the moment, often an hour or
two before I actually publish them online. They are written in the heat of the
moment, in the midst of tears and tantrums, and more often than not, when I am
riding the very lowest point of the roller-coaster I call my life.
Posted by
Emma Betts
at
11:48 PM
Labels:
advocate
,
blog
,
business
,
confidence
,
dear melanoma
,
excited
,
fundraising
,
future
,
planning
,
self worth
,
speaker
,
website
,
work
My love affair with Pavlova...
Thursday, October 15, 2015
Pavlova
As you all know, I am obsessed with Pavlova. As my
‘quasi-bucket list’ states – if Pavlova is on the menu at a restaurant, I must
order it.
I am a Pavlova snob. I am a traditionalist – no chocolate
allowed and no Coles pre-made bases! I also have very high standards for myself
when it comes to baking a Pavlova. The pressure and stress I feel when a
Pavlova is in the oven is ridiculous!
Posted by
Emma Betts
at
12:17 AM
Labels:
baking
,
bucket list
,
pavlova
,
recipe
,
serge
Good news and bad news...
Tuesday, September 22, 2015
A quick update...
Last week I shared the news that my latest CT scan wasn’t
great. A lesion on my adrenal gland had grown and there appeared to be activity
in my lymph nodes.
It is really difficult to explain the emotions that were
triggered by this scan. On one hand, I felt silly that I was so upset by these
results because the big picture was not that bad – everything else was stable,
which is great! But, this one naughty little lesion had the potential to change
the direction of my treatment, a treatment that essentially bought me back from
death’s door.
It feels like a lifetime ago that I was given three months
to live and being told that my only hope of more time would be gaining access
to a clinical trial of the drug Keytruda and hope that it would work.
Posted by
Emma Betts
at
3:29 PM
Labels:
CT
,
death
,
debrafenib and trametinib
,
fear
,
keytruda
,
lesions
,
PET
,
scans
,
treatment
,
trial
The Care Package...
Tuesday, September 8, 2015
So Dear Melanoma Facebook Page went off last night. I felt
like I was back to the evening when we had a mighty fine conversation about the
stupid things people like to tell someone who has cancer – what a hilarious
night it was! Last night I asked the Dear Melanoma community what they think
should be in a ‘care package’ for people with cancer.
How did this come about? Well, as many of you know I work
one day a week at a fab little gift shop in Brisbane. I often have people come
in to work and ask for advice on what to give a friend that is sick and I
normally just point them in the right direction and make some suggestions – I
often will not tell them my personal situation. However, on Monday a lady came
in and asked for help – she wanted to put a care package together for a friend
who was about to start chemo. She was at a complete loss of how to support her
friend and this was the perfect thing to show her love and support.
Posted by
Emma Betts
at
10:22 PM
Lessons from unattractive blubbery tears...
Saturday, September 5, 2015
As many of you know last weekend I surprised Serge with a
night away. Yes, I know what you are all thinking I am the one with cancer, I
should be treated to surprise weekend’s away… I joke!! You all know what an
amazing man Serge is and that he is very deserving of a weekend away. If money
grew on trees Serge would be treated to lots of surprises – we can only dream!
Serge and I have had a pretty hectic last few months with my
sinuses playing up and Serge has been busy with work. We have both been a little
bit low and getting a bit narky at each other. We haven't had much time to be madly in love. We always try and spend our free
days together and do something special, but this just hasn’t happened. And
since the purchase of our little humble abode, planning our next big adventure
seems a bit irresponsible. However, having an adventure on our horizon in many
ways keeps us going, in particular me – it gives me something tangible to focus
on. Once again, if only money grew on trees…
Posted by
Emma Betts
at
9:59 PM
Labels:
baby
,
cancer
,
children
,
cry
,
family
,
future
,
holidays
,
hope
,
romantic
,
serge
,
tears
,
wedding
,
weekend
,
weekend away
,
weekend escape
Subscribe to:
Posts
(
Atom
)